Showing posts with label Loneliness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Loneliness. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 13, 2013

TrueLoveWaits: What’s Your Emotional Scent Smell Like?



THE HUNT IS ON!! And your Emotional Scent has led him right to you. As the pursuer, men have a phenomenal gifting in sniffing out the Emotional Scent of a woman- I call it the Inner Nose; it’s kind of like how we as women possess a strong sense of intuition that men seem to lack. Just think of a police dog that is working on a major drug case. Sheriff K-9’s nose has been trained to know the drug scent from a mile away. The same goes for men, whatever their Inner Noses are trained in sniffing for they can pick it up in our Emotional Scent. 

Some men have mastered their Inner Noses to pick up certain Emotional Scents that they are in specific hunt for, like the scent of desperation and loneliness just to name a few. All Men were born with an Inner Nose, and given the power to train their noses as they wish, if they’re looking for the lonely and desperate they have trained their noses to sniff out the Emotional Scent of the lonely and desperate (it’s just that simple). Ladies before physical words are exchange a man can tell if you’re confidant, lonely, desperate, and so forth-It’s your Emotional Scent that gives him the 411 (that or the clothes you’re wearing-which is another blog all in itself).

Your Emotional Scent (ES) is your personal PR Director- it will manage the flow of information between you and a potential. You may be attracted to the good guys, but your tampered Emotional Scent is still leaving crumbs behind for the abusers and womanizers to find. Only the healing of your soul will allow your Emotional Scent to leave the right crumb trail for the right man to come along. I’ve seen it with my own eyes, you will NEVER see a man who is on the hunt for a potential one night stand, step to a secure confidant woman with that foolishness. His primary goal is to have his Inner Nose converse with a PR Director (ES) who specializes in desperation, loneliness, and low self-esteem-keep in mind this emotional transaction is taking place without you or him physically exchanging words.

 Just like lingering perfume left dancing in the room, your Emotional Scent leaves a trail for particular men to follow and find you. Now ladies this can go in an up and up direction as well, especially for dating. Your Emotional Scent will use the data from your Health Emotional Report (HER) to send out to your potentials-it cannot and will not put on a front for you (your HER is NOT created to lie). With that said, say that you’re now in a great place in life and your emotional healing has taken its course to the point that you’re ready to date again. Your HER is firing out great signals and your Emotional Scent trail is now leaving out a different caliber of crumbs. And to top it all off, you did a little housecleaning by FIRING your PR Director who specialized in Loneliness/desperation and brought on a fantastic PR Director who’s purposed only in confidence, wholeness, and high self-esteem. Your walk has change and your confidant level has increased, because now your Emotional Scent has went from a Dollar Store brand perfume to Chanel #5- you definitely have it going on lady. But the most amazing part is that your new PR Director (ES) will use great wisdom and discretion when transacting business on your behalf. So What’s Your Emotional Scent Smell Like? 

~MechelleRenee



Wednesday, January 30, 2013

TrueLoveWaits: Quiet Your Desperate Plea



Don’t allow your right now feelings to get in the way of your future forever. The man that God has for you will far exceed what you are trying to make possible for yourself-your faith will be the magnetic force that God will use to draw your future husband to you or vice versa. I know being alone can be a PAIN in the you know WHAT, and your biological clock is ticking uncontrollably, but I really want you to take a step back and tune in to what your heart is really trying to convey to you. Are you really free to love and be yourself around him, or have you convince yourself into loving him for the sake of not being alone. Think about it while I share my story with you.

I definitely had my share of desperate pleas- entertaining someone from my past because they showed me a little attention and called me beautiful, and I can’t forget the nights of crying out my frustration and anger to God-hoping that my Prince Charming would fall out of the sky and rescue me from the mean dragon of loneliness. I remember one particular night I was lying in my bed in silence and the tears begin rolling down my face. I had finally calmed down from my normal episodes of yelling my desperate pleas to God (Thank God for Grace and Mercy). As I laid there I couldn't muster up the strength to verbalize my question to God, so my heart said it for me- “Why haven’t I been pursued yet?”

The tears continued to flow down my face as my heart waited in anticipation to hear God’s answer. Silence filled the room once again and finally God’s Gentle Voice spoke to my heart and said “You’re a rare Jewel; I have you tucked away for someone special, that’s why you’re hidden under me.” I smiled from His answer and immediately new tears begin to flow down my face- tears of joy. My heart was immediately at peace and overjoyed as I replayed back the beautiful words that God had spoken to me that night over in my heart-my perception of "waiting" was forever changed that night. I want you to know that that word wasn't just for me, but it was for you as well. You’re a rare jewel tuck away in the safe keeping of God’s heart. I’m here to deliver to you the answer to your desperate plea that God has you tuck away, and is preparing you for the man he’s created you to be with.

In jewelry stores you have many beautiful diamonds on display for buyers to buy and for people to gawk at. But the rare exclusive jewel (that’s YOU) is secured away in the store’s vault and is not permitted to come out until that special buyer (Your Future husband) shows up. God is the keeper of your heart, he hasn't forgotten about you and your desires. The Lord never forgets your faithfulness and your heart equity you've already put in (so don’t cash out early)-He shall reward you with HIS CHOICE for your husband if you faint not-there’s still hope. Don’t sale yourself short by having someone in your life for the sake of him being there instead of being alone, wait on God. Don’t allow right now feelings to get in the way of your future forever- Quiet Your Desperate Plea.

~MechelleRenee  



Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Gold Nugget for today: My Favorite Quote for Loneliness





“Loneliness is not the absent of people, it’s the
absent of purpose; When you find purpose than
the right people will come.”
~Dr. Cindy Trimm