TrueLoveWaits: More than the Suit Alone.

There is nothing more attractive to me than a man wearing a tailored suit- His handsome face, masculine physique, sexy smile, and the choosing of his tie and cufflinks to match would always send chills up my spine. But then I would question is he more than the suit alone? We as women tend to allow our physical attractions to a man become the dictators of our life. Now don’t get me wrong there is nothing wrong with having physical attractions, just don’t allow that attraction to blur your vision of who the real man wearing the suit is.

 There are many good-looking suit wearing men out there who are physical abusers and womanizers. What you see on the outside is NOT always what you get. You may have thought that he was the perfect gentleman because of his charm and sexy smile; until you find yourself frantically searching for your concealer to cover up the black eye he gave you during his normal drinking rage. Don’t get caught up in fatal attraction, use the wisdom God gave you and seek out more than just how good he looks in a suit. What lies in the heart of a man should weigh more on your rector scale than your physical attraction to him.  

Keep in mind that he may not come in the package that you were expecting. I love suit wearing men, but my soul mate may be a mechanic who works on cars all day long. Would you rather have a suit wearing abuser, or a dirty nail-bed mechanic who cleans up nicely?  You can agree that even from a business point of view, we can say that First Impressions are very important. However, the meat of your presentation stems from the knowledge of how well you know the ins and outs of your product. In knowing this I choose the good hearted mechanic who cleans up nicely and would look just as good in a suit. Suit wearing men are my attractions and yours may be different from mine. But whatever physical attraction it may be make sure you go beyond his charm and sexy looks to see if he is more than the suit alone.  

         

~MechelleRenee