TrueLoveWaits: Ladies I know you want it too.

Ladies If you’re involve in premarital sex right now, I know you’re probably saying to yourself “I want it too, if not just as bad.” I’ve been there done that- to where I didn’t want a relationship, just sex (which I call SEXingship). But really if we are truly honest with ourselves we would prefer to have the privilege of having someone to love unconditionally and to love us back the same, rather than the familiar hit it and quit it routine. Are you not worth the wait? Let’s be honest ladies after the music stops and your body has calmed down from the sex fulfilled shakes, you can’t believe his record timing of watching him immediately put on his clothes and walking out the door. Experiencing this will leave you with a damper on your emotions that will eventually make you feel unwanted, disconnected, and even disappointed .

At first you may express that you’re okay with just sex (because a woman has needs too), but something deeper within happens- a piece of you is given to your sex partner-your soul is tied to theirs. You may have trained your mind and your emotions to disconnect emotionally, but the same process happens when you have sex with another and another. Your soul is tied up into so many knots that you begin to lose the true essence of who you really are. Let me prove it, Have you ever had sex with someone only to find yourself later on taking on some of the characteristics of your partner? This takes place when your soul is tied to that individual. Let’s say that your lips have never touched nicotine and your sex partner is a smoker, sooner than later you will find yourself taking a puff of their cigarette ( you may not become a chain smoker, but an after-Sex-Smoker occasionally…You’re still doing something that you wouldn't normally do on your own).

Taking on small habits is just the skim of the surface. A deeper level of soul tying would be you taking on your sex partner’s emotional scares. For example You may have never suffered from depression, but your partner is secretly depressed, you are now a carrier of depression and it is only a matter of time before symptoms of depression begin to manifest itself in your life. That is why it is so important to wait ladies-because you’re worth the wait and the beauty to staying committed to God first will keep you on the path to finding your husband later. Ladies I know you want it too!! But hold on and Stay Strong!! We are in this thing together!!! 

~MechelleRenee